Before I took my Ss's to karate last night I asked Dh to watch the potatoes so the water didn't boil over. I come home and they're off the burner and I asked if he checked them or Sd, he said Sd did. I got irritated because I asked him to do it, not to be a bitch but cause he's been on his computer constantly and I just wanted him to do Something.
I leave him alone for a while and ask him later what's going on. He says he's tired of my shit and I'm always mad when I come home. For a while I was, his 3 kids moved in with us full time and I was trying to adjust and it seemed like every time I left and came back the house was a war zone, but I've been working on it. I told him it wasn't about Sd it was more that I asked him to do something to get off the computer for just a Few Minutes and he wouldn't. He told me even though I'm his wife I needed to mind my own business and stay out of his. That pretty much ended the conversation cause it hurt my feelings and we haven't talked since.
Any advice ladies? We've had a hell of a couple months, and I've tried to be supportive but I can only take so much.