you found out that your DH/SO was creating profiles on numerous dating website?
When my husband did this I flipped out on him but he told me that he had mentioned it earlier in the week and I must not have been paying attention.....so I made a few changes to his profiles to include me. I wish he would have just let me set up the accounts because he had no clue what he was doing. Most of the girls wanted a relationship with him and that was definitely not what he was looking for. lol
I would treat it like infidelity. I don't think I'd want a divorce on the spot, but definitely would talk to him. Depending on how he reacted I would have to decide if I want to work through it with him or not...
I would treat it as infedelity also.
I would demand to know the motives in creating the account/s. and also demand that he delete every last one of them. and then we'd go to counseling/therapy to work out the issues.
and if all that failed, I'd have to leave.
If I found out my husband was posting profiles on dating websites, I would leave him. I know it sounds harsh, but I find that disrespectful, and I could never be with a man who tells me he loves me, and then turns around and tries to pick up other women online.
Uhm.. he would be out the friggen door ASAP!!
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