Am I the ONLY wife/mom to ever have an affair!!!!????!!!
I read all these posts about the "husbands" or "SO" having the affair - am I the ONLY wife and/or mom to have one??? Geez I thought I felt all alone before!!
Anyone else done it or doing it?????
no im sorry to be mean but i could never be that selfish
im generally not a mean person
but if i ever felt like i was at a point were i would cheat i would talk to my husband first, we talk about everything , cheating just seems like the chicken shit way out of a relationship
my feelings on this would be the same regardless , so its not personal
Oh, I'll stay alright, been in this thing too long. DH isn't what he use to be now. He has medical problems that he is dealing with now. Has to take a couple prescriptions and these meds are REALLY affecting his manhood. Carma? Maybe. God's lesson to him? Maybe. Whatever the reason, he's paying for it now.
Gets no sympthy from me, though, especially since he has never admitted to anything. I am Done wasting my time trying to figure out what he is doing. Now, I spend my time doing things that he may be wondering about. LOL. Now he can do all the guessing and spying....:)
Quoting tihone77:I've always wondered about this type of situation. If I'm out of line I'm sorry. How can you stay with him knowing what he is doing? Why is divorce not an option? Is it just because of the financial security? Are you still intimate with him? I've always thought that if my hubby cheated on me once then I would want to try to work it out. But if he were to do it multiple times, I don't think I could do it. Again, if I'm asking to much, forgive me. I just don't understand this though.
Quoting kierra54:I'm sure you are not the only one to have an affair, or in my case thinking about having one. My dh hubby has cheated on me for years now. Everytime he is found out, I think that he will change and try to do better. But two or three yrs later, I always find out that he still had affairs. Maybe one night stands, but those still count in my book. Why do men think that these doesn't count.
Just because they can get a woman to spread their legs without even having any feelings for the woman, then they don't call these affairs.
We've been married for 28yrs. Divorce is not an option this late in the game. I don't plan on going anywhere. If it's in God's will, then I will be here to get his retirement. Why would I just give up so many yrs. of trials and tribulation with him, just to let some other woman get what's mine???
In the meantime, I finds ways to make myself HAPPY!!!!!
They came true for me. I've been in plenty of relationships before and I've slept with plenty of men before my husband. I married him because I knew I'd never cheat on him ever.
So no I haven't cheated, but I know you are for sure not alone... Lots of women cheat just as much as men do.
I had major feelings for another man a couple years ago at work and even told other co workers about it. I never told the guy this and we hardly even talked to each other. Still I knew it was wrong especially since I was telling other people and he probably did find out, but nothing ever came of it. My husband was crushed and it defintely took a toll on our marriage. It has been a roller coaster and I truly believe that my husband is the one I want to spend the rest of my life with even though we have other issues... I feel like we can get through anything!
Check out "mom confessions" LOL
When you met your dh/so?
- firstlovewonder
on Apr. 10, 2012 at 2:54 PM