Ooooh I learned that men do that a deflection! He keeps repeating himself because he knows you'll get irritated and give up and then he doesnt have to argue with you anymore.
my dh continually asks the same question. after i answer it once, if he asks again, i just tell him it's the same answer as last time. if he keeps saying the same thing over and over, i tell him i heard him and he needs to come up with something different for me to respond. it's a HUGE pet peeve of mine to constantly repeat questions and statements.



- parisonmom
on Apr. 12, 2012 at 12:27 PM