I deal with this everyday....
We live in the area where DH grew up...I grew up 600 miles away from here...
We go out to eat and the waitress gets extra cozy with DH...he never reciprocates but it's unnerving to say the least...then I find out that he "dated" her "back in the day"
**rolls eyes**
All I can say is that I understand....
Because he needs to pick up the phone and tell them to leave him alone! This happened to DH when we were dating, and finally one day he got fed up and handed me the phone. I dealt with it. She tried to say she never bothered him but I was like, "That's funny. I have been with him EVERY TIME you have called and texted. Leave him alone, we are getting married and he has moved on."
It's either that, or when you aren't around, he's calling them.
But first I would ask him to answer these calls and tell them to stop contacting him.
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Quoting LadyStork:Because he needs to pick up the phone and tell them to leave him alone! This happened to DH when we were dating, and finally one day he got fed up and handed me the phone. I dealt with it. She tried to say she never bothered him but I was like, "That's funny. I have been with him EVERY TIME you have called and texted. Leave him alone, we are getting married and he has moved on."
It's either that, or when you aren't around, he's calling them.
But first I would ask him to answer these calls and tell them to stop contacting him.
He has to be responding sonetimes otherwise they wouldnt keep with it
Quoting LadyStork:Because he needs to pick up the phone and tell them to leave him alone! This happened to DH when we were dating, and finally one day he got fed up and handed me the phone. I dealt with it. She tried to say she never bothered him but I was like, "That's funny. I have been with him EVERY TIME you have called and texted. Leave him alone, we are getting married and he has moved on."
It's either that, or when you aren't around, he's calling them.
But first I would ask him to answer these calls and tell them to stop contacting him.



- Brie10
on Apr. 14, 2012 at 10:17 AM