My husband has been forced to take overtime a LOT lately, and the extra money is great. But, I have only seen for maybe 30 minutes total in the past week. He works nights (5p-5a), so he sleeps all day. He hasn't had a day off since last Thursday, and last Thursday was the last day I had adult interaction of any kind. I know I shouldn't complain because he is working to hard to support me and our children while I'm in online school, but I miss conversating and being intimate. I'm going crazy!! When I mentioned to him how I felt he got pissed off at me like I'm not thankful for what he does and he said that this is how marriage is suppose to be and for me to get use to it.. If this is how our marriage is going to stay, I'm not sure I want to be married anymore. I was less lonely single. Even when he wasn't taking OT he was always leaving to go hang out with his cousin or go hang out at where he works..so I'm alone either way. We only have one car, and he is always using it so I'm stuck in this house all day every day. I like that he has friends he can hang out with, but I need attention too. And his sons need his attention. I just don't know how to make him listen to me..everytime I bring it up I get called selfish and unappreciative.
I just don't know what to do anymore.. I'm so frustrated and sad :(