My husband is very non-social. He has no friends here in this town. He has a couple around the country from college, but that's all. He does not have any hobbies or anyone he hangs out with. He works about 50 hours a week and sleeps when he is off and then we just hang out and do things as a family. I love being with him and having family time. I am just worried that he will lose himself if he doesn't find friends to talk to or share hobbies with. He seems normal and not sad or depressed, but how can that be? I know it's a lonely feeling not having friends. How can he not feel that too? I asked him the other day if he is depressed and he said no. He is a very smart person and spends most of his time off with us and researching stuff online. I really hope he is happy and that he is satisfied with his life.
I just don't have the heart to tell him that he has no friends or hobbies and he needs to change his social habits. I don't want to hurt his feelings.
What do you think?
EDIT*** I would never let this issue get in the way of our marriage. I just mean will it put a strain on it. I would never consider divorce over this, at all. I love him so very much and just want his happiness and contentmen in life. He is such a great person and I am so proud to be his wife. But we all have our little issues we deal with, right?
10 year old and 3 month old...it doesn't get any better than this!