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How often do you have sex?

Posted by on Apr. 24, 2012 at 4:02 AM
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My husband complains that I don't give him enough attention (aka sex). How often do have sex? Sorry I feel bad asking this question but honestly I love cafemom bc all the moms on here are so helpful and have great advice. I have zero idea if my sex drive is below average but once a week seems to be enough for me. :-)))

 Update: How do all of you find the time to have sex every day and even more than once a day??? Aren't you sore from doing it that often. LOL

Update: You guys are killing me with your every single day and sometimes more than once a day. I feel like I am torturing my husband. LOL

by on Apr. 24, 2012 at 4:02 AM
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MamaWolf01
by on Apr. 24, 2012 at 4:15 AM
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5-7 times a week. Have you considering compromising to 2-3 times a week or getting your levels checked?

MamaWolf01
by on Apr. 24, 2012 at 4:16 AM

and yes your sex drive is below average if thats all you want it

mamavaness
by Member on Apr. 24, 2012 at 4:16 AM
Ahh every other day. He wants it everyday though. Its a compromise
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nanasue31204
by Member on Apr. 24, 2012 at 4:17 AM
I would have sex daily if he could keep up, but he works 70 hours a week so he's exhausted. We average 2-3 times a week but are trying to find more time together. He would like us to be up to 4-6 times a week, we used to be nightly or several times a day but a mortgage, 4 kids and him working 2 jobs at the moment are making it difficult. Now we are just focusing on spending time together, if it leads to sex great if not we're just happy to see each other.
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jylianne
by on Apr. 24, 2012 at 4:17 AM

2 - 3 times a day....

Brittanyk3
by Member on Apr. 24, 2012 at 4:19 AM
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i cant even put a number on it. my husband wants it more often but i just have zero sex drive since having kids...wish i knew how to change that...
stockuponlove
by on Apr. 24, 2012 at 4:21 AM
Fwb.... Everyday but it's not nearly enough. I swear we are horrible people.
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GCSOmom
by on Apr. 24, 2012 at 4:26 AM
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We average about 1-2 times a week, sometimes more sometimes less depending on how stressed we are from work, and if we're even home from work. Kinda have to be in the same room! :/ On top of that, we're polar opposites so when I want to he doesn't and vice versa.
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Hopeful28
by on Apr. 24, 2012 at 4:30 AM
2 to 3 times a day on average.
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katienmary
by on Apr. 24, 2012 at 4:48 AM

Wow, I think I have a real problem. I had zero idea my sex drive was so low compared to others. lol

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