I am angry and hurt and a few other emotions right now.

[catrig]

I found out some things last week, well more like had a few things confirmed.  My husband finally admitted he has a problem with porn and alcohol.  I'm angry and hurt.  He says he wants to get help.  I told him if he doesn't get it together I'm divorcing him.  I refuse to live like this anymore.  I can take a lot of things, but I can't take the lying.

[39holding519]

I'm sorry to hear that.  It is good tha the is admitting it and wants help.  His actions will speak for themselves and only you can decide if you can help him through this and if you are able to get past it if he does actually get the help.  Do you love him and do you think you could ever trust him?  Do you think he means whathe is saying about getting help? Good luck & HUGS to you!

[BrooklynsMom11]

 I'm sorry you're dealing with that.  DH and I are going through a similar problem except it's not alcohol, it's weed and porn, and, of course, the lying.  We are toeing the line on divorce...

I hope your DH mans up and gets his act together.  Good luck!

[catrig]

I'm will to stick by him if he gets help and if he's honest with me.  He seems to mean it.  He's looking into inpatient or outpatient care.  The alcohol and porn are symptoms of bigger problems with him.

Quoting 39holding519:

I'm sorry to hear that.  It is good tha the is admitting it and wants help.  His actions will speak for themselves and only you can decide if you can help him through this and if you are able to get past it if he does actually get the help.  Do you love him and do you think you could ever trust him?  Do you think he means whathe is saying about getting help? Good luck & HUGS to you!

[catrig]

I'm sorry you are having to deal with that as well.  The lying sucks doesn't it.

Quoting BrooklynsMom11:

 I'm sorry you're dealing with that.  DH and I are going through a similar problem except it's not alcohol, it's weed and porn, and, of course, the lying.  We are toeing the line on divorce...

I hope your DH mans up and gets his act together.  Good luck!

[ef0311]

It's great that he admitted that he has a problem. I hope he'll follow through and get the help he needs. Good luck!

[catrig]

Thank you. 

Quoting ef0311:

It's great that he admitted that he has a problem. I hope he'll follow through and get the help he needs. Good luck!

[catrig]

bump

[catrig]

BUMP!

[CameronsMommy23]

It's a step in the right direction that he admitted it and wants to seek help! Good luck to the two of you!

[MoreMia]

 I'm sorry you're both going through that, hope he gets the help he needs and you fix your relationship.