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Major Dilemma please answer honestly

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 OK here goes, my friend has asked my opinion on the following matter but Im unsure how to advise her.......

She has been with her now ex partner for 10 years when a month ago they split and she says for good (they had rocky relationship, he not lived with her and the children for a number of years). Last week she met up with her eldests biological dad after numerous years, they spent the night together and she says it unearthed old feelings she thought she'd never have for him again. The problem she facing is she spent night with him when he was apart from his current gf, BUT since then he has got back with her and recently ie last few days his gf has found out she is pregnant.

The ex has told her he wants to be with her but there are many factors to consider ie her children to another partner and this now pregnancy with his 'gf'.

What would any of you advise she should do? Follow her heart which is saying sod them all or her head saying let things lie?

Any advice is much appreciated x


by on May. 2, 2012 at 9:20 AM
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by on May. 2, 2012 at 4:37 PM

She's one month past a 10 year rocky relationship and hooks up with an old flame who is in a relationship with another woman (who is now pregnant).  Does Mr. Flame want a relationship with your friend while also having a relationship with the pregnant woman?  Or is he saying he'll leave Ms. Preg and get with her?  Perhaps she should heal from her rocky relationship and find out why she'd want to get with a man who is willing to cheat.  If he'd cheat on his gf, he'll cheat on her.  Is she seeking another rocky relationship?

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