We were talking last night, and he said something about I do things that irritate him. I asked him to tell me one, and he didn't want to. I pushed, and he finally said Cafemom. He said he sees me on it "all the time." I get on throughout the day for a few minutes here and there. What does your SO think of you being on Cafemom, Facebook, or any other social website? Does he think you spend too much time on it? Does it bother him that you share things about your marriage and family with strangers? Should I stop getting on here for him?