is your DH alot bigger than you?
My DH is only 5'9 and weighs 180 but I am only 5'0 and weigh 102 so he seems a lot bigger. He also works out so his chest and shoulders are broad. my ex-husband was 6'4 and 170 so my 3 oldest babies are tall. I know they are going to pass me up. My 11 yr old wears my shoes and clothes.
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