I think it's a great idea. When DH and I started out the sex was great, I was head over heels inlove with him, our relationship was starting to get more serious, but, the one thing that made me feel so close to him was showering together. I don't know why but all of my inhibitions left me while we were in the shower together and I could ask him anything, say anything and not feel anxious about it. It really brought a whole new level of intimacy to the relationship. It was so unexpected. I guess sometimes it's just something that seems so insignificant that can connect everything else. Like maybe having sex 7 days a week. I know that when we seem a little distand I increase the sex and make sure we shower together.lol
I think its worth a shot, I know when me and my husband are having more sex, our relationship overall seems better, and we don't snap at one another as much.
Personally I want to be that couple that made it into a 100 day challenge. Keep trying to convince my hubby but for some strange reason, he thinks he still needs to go to work to provide for the family (he's a trucker so he is not home every day), LOL. So we just do it multiple times when he is home instead :-)
Haven't even heard of it.
I don't think sex is a good bandaid. Sex creates endorphines that make you feel good and constant sex may seem to help but in the end, your problems are still there and still need to be worked on. I think sex gives false feelings.



- analexismom
on May. 5, 2012 at 10:44 AM