my husband left me and our son in the middle of the night.
That isn't a real man. Sorry. You dont deserve that and neither does your son. Move on and let him divorce you. Then take him to court for child support. If he was man enough to make a kid, he should be man enough to pay his share. Good luck!
Oh, and I'm in Raleigh and I have family in Rolesville (right outside Louisburg)... Super small towns. LOL. :)
Im srry bout all of this but dont worry about it might be easy for me to say but trust me ive seen this alot with pipl i know and at the end if it they regret it, Let him do all he wants it wont last long trust me he will come back to you guys but you have to be strong and not beg him or nothing! And as for his son dont deny it to him just remember that in order for good things to happen to you you have to be the good person:)
Quoting HopefulMommy89:
((((hugs)))) If even his own mother said he's changed, is he on drugs or something? I'm so sorry mama.
WOW!! Raul went threw something like that sayin that he didnt know what he wanted and he didnt know if he loved me anymore... this went on for about a year (but things were bad before that) long story short for R&R he went to a different state to see someone else and i left him about a month after his deplyment was over he "poared" his heart out saying he loved me and that he needed me and to please come back I chose to come back but before i did we layed things out on the table I told him how I felt and what I wanted and he told me how he felt and what he wanted.. a year later and we are doing better yes we still have our ups and downs but nothing major...
I would let him go focus on you and your son and if he wasnt man enough to even say good bye then you be woman enough to wipe your tears stand up and say good bye if he comes back which Im sure he will then its on you if you let him back in
Quoting Mrs.Foley:
No cause then he will get kicked out of the army. Thankfully my inlaws are letting me live here til I get on my feet, his mom said "he thinks he is crazy if he's going to come visit and be allowed in my house again."
Quoting HopefulMommy89:
((((hugs)))) If even his own mother said he's changed, is he on drugs or something? I'm so sorry mama.
Dh and my argument today made me so mad, and realized he is lazy
- Mrs.Foley
on May. 6, 2012 at 10:55 AM