I am going through a separation with my sons' dad right now(he cheated last summer) and usually after a discussion with mr. attitude, I am drowning in tears. Not because I am sad but from anger.
Well today I asked him if he was going to be here for my son's birthday party next Saturday and he said no cause he doesn't get along with my sister. But he answered me in a very nasty tone and I asked him if I should get used to the way he is speaking to me now and he said its just that he has nothing to say to me.
And instead of annoying myself further, I went to shower and get ready to make my boys' lunches and take them to the bus. NO TEARS! I actually was chuckling in the shower cause I thought to myself why did I let myself get so upset before when I can clearly see now I don't want to be with him anymore. I think another hurdle is behind me....YAY!!!!