What would you do? My dh only helps with the kids when I tell him to. He has told me that he can't handle taking care one 1 baby, now we have 2 so it's worse. He won't even take our oldest outside to play, that's how lazy he is. He's a disabled (mentally lol) vet so he does not work at the moment.
He has told me "men are not made to take care of kids, men aren't good at it". He spends most of the day on the computer, then when I ask why he is always on the computer & isn't helping with HIS kids (ages 20 months & our latest 2 weeks old) he tells me "there's nothing else to do". WTF?! I'm a sahm running all day long, cleaning, changing diapers, feeding kids and trying to get in a moment for myself.
And he says he has nothing else to do, but sit on the computer. We've had many arguments over his computer time even before the kids were born. I just want to know how you would handle this situation.