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Would you be ok with ur DH/SO doing this

Posted by on May. 14, 2012 at 11:54 AM
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 I had a talk with a gir friend of mine and she was talking to me about her man, and how he cheats on her with other woman. And I asked her you know he cheats and your ok with it? she said this is what I tell him, "YOUR GONNA DO YOU REGARDLESS BUT IF YOU CHEAT DONT LET ME FIND OUT ABOUT IT, WHEN YOU HAVE SEX USE A CONDOM, NO ORAL SEX, DONT MAKE ANY BABIES, AND DNT BRING ME A STD" Im sorry I told her let me find out my husband is doing something like that, he will come up missing lol. Would you be ok knowing your man cheats on you, as long as you don't find out about it?

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Wright_Mommy
by on May. 14, 2012 at 12:01 PM
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 NO WAY! Im with you he would come up missing and maybe the girl too lol.

MeTaL_MoMmA_08
by on May. 14, 2012 at 12:03 PM
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Fuuuuuuuuuuuuck no, I wouldn't be okay with it!

Why is your friend's self-respect so low that she tolerates that bullshit??

TrentonGirl
by on May. 14, 2012 at 12:03 PM
Same


Quoting Wright_Mommy:

 NO WAY! Im with you he would come up missing and maybe the girl too lol.


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AmandaMaeBell
by on May. 14, 2012 at 12:04 PM

Maybe when hell freezes over..until then....he better not dare!

CherryBlossom4
by on May. 14, 2012 at 12:04 PM
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Anyman that cheats on a woman "regardless" is NOT going to respect the woman's "rules" of how to cheat. Period.

If they were swingers, maybe they would respect each others ground rules. I am not saying that is okay by any means, I think it is just as gross... I'm just saying that if they were in it together, there would probably be mutual respect of boundries. 

But saying, you can screw her... but no oral sex and use a condom. Um... NO!

MrsLeftlane
by on May. 14, 2012 at 12:04 PM
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She must not have much respect for herself, or her marriage...... No, if he wants someone else then it's time to move on. I don't need a man to be happy, or to keep from being lonely. I married my Husband because we love each other, and have a mutual respect for each other.....

lucky2Beeme
by Silver Member on May. 14, 2012 at 12:04 PM

That wouldn't work for us.

GraceHudson
by on May. 14, 2012 at 12:05 PM
NO


Sunshine257
by Bronze Member on May. 14, 2012 at 12:05 PM

No way in hell!

MamaJess9
by Member on May. 14, 2012 at 12:06 PM
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This. It sounds like your friend has very low self-esteem.


Quoting MrsLeftlane:

She must not have much respect for herself, or her marriage...... No, if he wants someone else then it's time to move on. I don't need a man to be happy, or to keep from being lonely. I married my Husband because we love each other, and have a mutual respect for each other.....


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