I love my boyfriend, and he's a great dad, but I'm having a problem with some of his hygene. It isn't his fault, but he has some problems with pooping, and going when he feels the need to go. Sometimes this leads to him 'leaking', which I think is disgusting, and he seems to hate it as well. I've gotten to the point where I wash all of his underwear seperate from all of the other clothes.
The real problem I have is that he refuses to wear clothes to bed, and a lot of leakage occurs then. I'm tired of our bed stinking and having to wash the sheets almost daily. I don't know how to talk to him about it, since it seems like he's embarassed enough about it. I tried saying, "Maybe you should start wearing clothes to bed in case our child needs something in the night and I'm unavailable. Or if the house catches on fire and we needs to get out fast." Good lord, there are a million reasons to wear clothes to bed, but he doesn't believe in a single one of them.
It's not like he doesn't shower or shave or stay clean otherwise. It's just his leakage and the refusal to wear clothes to bed.
I'm at a loss.