See what CafeMoms are saying about saving time this holiday season..
*Sorry for the long message*
It's been crazy lately around my home. I am 38 wks +1 day and I have a toddler. Well, I've been going crazy trying to get everything ready for the new baby and have been stressing out and stressing my DH out as well. (Some back story on this before I say my main point) Well, I have had issues this entire pregnancy due to having this one so soon after my daughter(20months). So I have a hard time doing anything without cramping/bleeding/ going into early labor. Well this has put a lot of stress on my DH & I because he has to do everything for me. I am getting closer to having the new baby VERY close and I can't get up for more then 5 minutes to do anything without my stomach getting hard as a rock and my body trying to go into labor. I asked my DH earlier to take the clothes to the washer for me because we live in an apartment complex and we cannot have a washer and dryer in our home and I cannot carry the baskets myself. Well he got mad about it because he was in the middle of playing his xbox. I asked him to do it earlier today and he wanted to wait for a bit and relax. Hmm... well I told him that he'd throw a fit if he started playing and then have to set the controller down to do anything. Of course like I said he threw a fit. When I tried explaining to him that I tried telling him that this would happen and he said it would but after I said that he said, "B**** F you, you lied yesterday" right in front of our daughter.. He does this A LOT when we argue. He talks down to me, calls me names, cusses, ect in front of her ... I will admit I did lie because I told him he could just spend the day playing yesterday but we had a chance to go and get some baby stuff seeing as how I have almost nothing and due anytime so I took the chance. I'm trying to get it to where we have everything for the baby here already since everyone will think they have to have him going with them to get everything instead of spending time with his new baby. He is NOT a bad guy at all I just wish he wouldn't do what he did/does.. This is not an all the time thing at least. But I'm getting so use to it that I'm getting to where I don't even care anymore.. I know this all may be confusing but my brain is a wreck right now. I just needed to vent and someone to talk to. *My family is very judgemental and I really don't feel like I could talk to them*
The day my beautiful little
girl came into this world.