My husband and I have been married since Sept .. we had our first child in April .. He's been outta work since Aug 25th and I've been out since Sept 20th .. We've been staying with family so that's how we've been getting by .. but today my mother told me that I needed to tell my husband to get a better group of frineds and to find a job ... I was dumbfounded .. for one, yes i may not like ALL his friends, but it's not like they do drugs or are in and out of prison .. no they are just stupid ..
Im not my husbands keeper .. Im not going to tell him who he can and can not talk to .. and as for a job .. HE"S LOOKED!!! I've LOOKED .. THere is NOTHING in our area .. :( all of his 'friends' have found jobs, but it's because they know someone .. and he's tried to get on with them .. but of course that shit never works ..
I don't know what to do .,. except leave my parents house and go back and stay with dh's parents. :/