Well are you?
I just feel its a respect thing for each other and not really submissive to each other when we do that. Just considering the other person's feelings really.
Quoting busymama777:Thats the best way to do it. We are very strict with money. We dont spend anything over $20 for fun stuff until we talk about it.
Quoting MOM3026:
This is. When it comes to finances I control it, but if its something that is a want that is expensive or over a certain amount we talk about it and come up with a game plan to get it.
Quoting busymama777:
To an extent. I do everything around the home and basically take full care of him. But he respects and values me. I stay home all day so I feel everything at home is on me. However, he does not tell me what to do or control my actions. We make all decisions together and if it includes dd or money, its my choice what happens.
Quoting motherslove82:
No. We are partners. We decide things together and I make my own decisions. I like being an adult.
why did you feel the need to dig at submissive wives? You like being an adult? really? I like being an adult too. Being a submissive wife does not make her less of an adult. SMH.
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Quoting Beautiful31mom:
Quoting motherslove82:
No. We are partners. We decide things together and I make my own decisions. I like being an adult.why did you feel the need to dig at submissive wives? You like being an adult? really? I like being an adult too. Being a submissive wife does not make her less of an adult. SMH.
Dh and my argument today made me so mad, and realized he is lazy
- akyle8945
on May. 21, 2012 at 1:21 PM