I was making small talk with a friend early this morning and brought up a tattoo idea. Well my BF saw the messages (he knew my facebook password due to having had a keylogger on the computer. He no longer has it on here) and says that I don't respect him. Yeah that's right. I don't. See, my respect is earned and not just given out to people. He lost my respect when he took a private (yes it was nudity) picture of me and posted it on my facebook page. Just about all my friends yelled at me about it. Thank goodness they were understanding when I told them how it got there. They were apalled that he would do such a thing. Well now he wants me to repsect him. I just told him that if he wants my respect that he has to earn it back. That includes staying off my facebook. I've had loooong before I even knew him. The good thing about my facebook is that he doesn't know the password anymore. Yepp. I changed it. I don't have his password so I don't see why he should have mine. But he is not getting my respect until he can prove that he deserves it.
Okay so that I can be more clear on this tattoo idea. It is a tattoo with wings and I want to add something in the middle. I was thinking of either the initials of or the chinese symbol for someone that I used to be friends with. This friend and I did try a relationship and it just didn't work. I understand that my BF 'has a right to be upset" but this guy was a friend way before anything else. We no longer talk due to circumstances that I will not get into. And I just want something to remember him by. With that said that still doesn't give my BF the right to have posted the nude picture of me. Like I said in the original post if he really wants my respect he WILL have to earn it back.