Would you go to the ends of the earth to defend your spouse/so?
Lets say that his family and him doesn't get along too well but they do with you better then him...and lets say that his brother was starting drama and was telling you how bad he was and how terrible he is and worthless etc..would you just sit there (on the phone) and listen to it and say flipping nothing??? Would you tell the brother to shut up and if he had nothing nice to say to not nothing at all? Hang up the phone on him etc? What would you do?
This happened to me except it was the opposite, my half-brother started drama and my hubby of 17 flipping years was on the phone with my half brohter and his girlfriend more then once listening to them putting me down (I heard because I wouldn't leave the room, I wanted to see what my hubby would do to take up for me/defend me etc...hell I figured after 17 years of marriage that he would have something to say in my defense if he gave a crap about me, cared for me or loved me in the least little bit...but NOPE!!!) He just sat there and listened and woudln't take up for me wouldn't say shut up to either of them (the girlfriend didn't ever even meet me!! Knew absolutely NOTHING about me except what my half brother and mother told her!!) So hubby sits there and listens and doesn't say anything my defense and he doesn't do this once, twice but three to four times!!!!!!!! And I get upset with him and ask him why didnt he say anything back or hell hang up the damn phone but he said that is just the way that he handled it was just to let my brother blab thinking if he got it out of his system things would be ok?? UM NO!!!!!! One of my best friends, who is also my first and true love siad that he would of defended me in a heart beat and gave them a piece of his mind etc and my other friends said the same thing and they didn't even care what was going on they would of defended me to the end of the earth so why can they all say that they would defend me no matter what yet the idiot that I am married too couldn't say one damn word to defend me?
What's your thoughts on this??