i realized i put my husband down a lot in this group. he isn't actualy a bad guy, just certain things about him get on my nerves and i've done some thinking about what to do to solve the issues. i need to stop being a nag and treat him with more respect because he was obviously treating me the same way i'm treating him. i also can't think hes a mind reader too, because guys aren't. we all wish they were but its not going to happen! this morning my husband let me sleep in til 11. he got up with our son and made breakfast for all of us! little things like that make me so happy! i wish he would do it every weekend but he needs his sleep too since he has a job that is very physical. he inflated mikeys new pool and we had a blast playing in it all day. my husband and i didn't argue, just enjoyed each others company and the happy smiles and giggles from our son as he splashed me! i couldn't have asked for a better day and i'm praying that there will be many more!