I have been in a long term relationship with a hispanic man, I am caucasian. I have invested my heart and many years in our relationship, but we do not live together. I have asked him recently why it's been so long since we've gone to his house,as we are always at mine. Last night I decided to drive by his house and found his front door wide open,while he was at work. I went to his work place during his break and confronted him.
Through the arguing and lies he tells, and has been telling for years, I figured out that he has brought his young cousin, in her 20's, from his country to live with him and sleep in his bed. He didn't want me to find out obviously and then had the gall to say that even if he has another woman, I won't leave him
I don't know if I am more angry at him or myself. I took his cell phone, disconnected that and the one his son has, and I am done with him. I am so so angry. This is the short story version of suspicions I have had for years. I am thankful I didn't go further with him, to marry him or anything stupid like that. Venting !