Feeling really threatened right now...old girl "friend" back in in the picture. How would you feel?
I met my SO through a mutual friend, she had been friends with him since 6th grade, They never dated or anything like that. I had been friends with her only a few years. Well long story short, a couple years into our relationship, found out they had been flirting by text. She is with her longtime boyfriend, and claimed it was all my SO. My SO even had a picture on his phone of her that he took from her fb, when I asked why he said his friends at work saw her in a pic he showed them of me and her and wanted to see a better pic. Right. Well this was 3 years ago, we had a falling out, didn't speak for a year then we saw her at a party, her and I made up and became friends on fb. Another year goes by and her and SO still haven't talked to my knowledge. Yesterday out of the blue she friends him fb. Now I feel really insecure and afraid things are going to happen again. All was fine in the world until this. I know it seems petty but can't stand the fact that my SO might be flirting with her again. I asked him about it, he said its not a big deal they were friends forever, maybe she just got tired of bs. But idk, seems weird. Guess I will have to wait and see how they act. I am seriously feeling threatened though. Am I right to feel this way? How would you feel if it was your SO/DH?