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Hubby looking at personals online?? im crushed

I barely slept and can't eat because I found out dh is looking at personal ads on craigslist(eewww)! He said he just looks but became really vicious and he looks at tons of porn when he's out of town. I'm in shock and can't wrap my head around this. Oh this hurts then makes me mad then hurts all over again. What do I do? He looked at divorce sites this morning...
I've thought about taking a break to get my bearings and let him figure this out but ugh I can't trust him. This is coming out in a jumble and I can't think straight.
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by on Jun. 2, 2012 at 12:41 PM
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JustThe10ofUs
by on Jun. 7, 2012 at 6:18 PM
We do too!! Lol Funny stuff.

Quoting britt6:

Both my husband and I look at the craigslist  missed connections section and the rants and raves, they make for great laughs. We don't really look at the other sections though. Hopefully your hubby is right and he is just looking at those sections for no reason at all,perhaps out of humour. Good luck to you!

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lil_mama06
by Bronze Member on Jun. 7, 2012 at 7:02 PM

HUGS and I'm sorry....

Lizzys_mommy13
by on Jun. 8, 2012 at 9:58 AM

Have you tried some counseling. Some one on one counseling for at least him and some marriage counseling for the both of you would probably benefit you. If you feel you can move past this, I would sit down and talk with him about going. If he doesn't want to, its time to move forward with yourself. It takes two to make a relationship work. 

2lilmamas
by on Jun. 8, 2012 at 10:18 AM

 You really need to tell to stop disrespecting you. There is no reason he should be looking at ads unless his intentions are to cheat on you. He needs to get priority straight and decide if wants keep his relationship. It's not easy being in a relationship where there is no trust.

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