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The term "baby mama".....

Posted by on Jun. 4, 2012 at 2:17 PM
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Am I the only one that thinks its disrespectful? I believe, she is either your wife, your girlfriend, or the mother of your kid(s). I feel the same way about "baby daddy". I would NEVER refer to my husband as "my baby daddy" in any conversation or post or whatever. I find it rude.


What do you think?

Posted by on Jun. 4, 2012 at 2:17 PM
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Sept-babies2
by Member on Jun. 4, 2012 at 2:20 PM

i have never actually thought of it before. but i guess it is kind of rude 

Mom2Addison12
by on Jun. 4, 2012 at 2:22 PM
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i think it's ghetto to be honest with you. i don't use the term baby daddy when it comes to my daughters real father, he is just a sperm donor, and that's it.

OHgirlinCA
by Silver Member on Jun. 4, 2012 at 2:23 PM
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 I don't like the term myself....

Hottmomma607
by Trica on Jun. 4, 2012 at 2:54 PM
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I don't care I don't use it! But I call my oldest sons' bio-father sperm donor. So I guess thats rude. But I don t care he hasn't did squat in 20yrs, asshole! Once I was out without my DH(sister&friend)and this Asian lady Ms.Lee she always severes us(me&DH)so when I was by myself she asked "Where's your baby daddy"? LOL I was like my who,what? LOL I said "My husbands at home"!
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BOOGIETHEBOOG
by Bronze Member on Jun. 4, 2012 at 3:00 PM

I can not stand thoe sayings. It sounds very ghetto. My mom called me a baby momma and my husband baby daddy. She thought that it was funny.  I gave her a look. I just hope that it dont come out of her mouth again.

CMS803
by on Jun. 4, 2012 at 3:06 PM
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My DH uses it from time to time. He doesn't mean for it to be rude, but I'm not a fan of it. He use to use it more, but I used it on him...I think he figured out how unattractive it is. Lol!
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CameronsMommy23
by Amber on Jun. 4, 2012 at 3:18 PM
I don't like or hate it.
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MommiesPNut
by on Jun. 4, 2012 at 3:24 PM
I hate it. Sounds trashy.
rebekahmuse
by Rebekah on Jun. 4, 2012 at 3:27 PM

 The only time I've heard people refer to someone else as "baby mama" or "baby daddy" is if that person is a POS and doesn't take care of their kids. So yeah, if my hubby refered to me as that I would be very offended.

AlannaMaria
by Alanna on Jun. 4, 2012 at 7:00 PM

 its kind of ghetto

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