Quoting LadyByrdNest:
Quoting coupon_ash_back:exactly.
I personally think women that will stay with someone like that must not think much of themselves.
The women that I've known personally who have stayed with a man that cheated on them was because the women realized after the affair and after therapy that she was actually a big reason the husband strayed in the first place. Now, I did not say she was the cause of the husband straying, but one of my friends told me that she had been ignoring her husband sexually, and emotionally, and even verbally abusing him for years, and he had even tried to get them to go to couples counseling before he finally cheated. So, she did feel partly to blame, that's why she stayed and gave it a second chance. Now they are doing fine!
Quoting RaLeighsMommy11:
There is no excuse for cheating. Get a dang divorce if you wanna get your needs met! She may be in the wrong for treating him that way but he should of been a man & left her
Quoting LadyByrdNest:
Quoting coupon_ash_back:exactly.
I personally think women that will stay with someone like that must not think much of themselves.
The women that I've known personally who have stayed with a man that cheated on them was because the women realized after the affair and after therapy that she was actually a big reason the husband strayed in the first place. Now, I did not say she was the cause of the husband straying, but one of my friends told me that she had been ignoring her husband sexually, and emotionally, and even verbally abusing him for years, and he had even tried to get them to go to couples counseling before he finally cheated. So, she did feel partly to blame, that's why she stayed and gave it a second chance. Now they are doing fine!
That's funny because that's kinda the same thing he said to her when she was ignoring him for all those years..."Why don't you just divorce me if I'm not making you happy?".
Sure can! We are all human and we all make mistakes. Marriage is not something to be taken lightly, and we shouldn't give up so easily. Work through it. There's obviously something going on that caused this to happen. I've been there, but I was the cheater. I am so thankful my husband forgave me. We figured out the root of the problem and we are happier than ever. I can't imagine hurting him like that again. And we are now expecting our first baby (:
Depends on the marriage. Some people can trust again. Some people can not
Quoting LadyByrdNest:
Quoting RaLeighsMommy11:
There is no excuse for cheating. Get a dang divorce if you wanna get your needs met! She may be in the wrong for treating him that way but he should of been a man & left her
Quoting LadyByrdNest:
Quoting coupon_ash_back:exactly.
I personally think women that will stay with someone like that must not think much of themselves.
The women that I've known personally who have stayed with a man that cheated on them was because the women realized after the affair and after therapy that she was actually a big reason the husband strayed in the first place. Now, I did not say she was the cause of the husband straying, but one of my friends told me that she had been ignoring her husband sexually, and emotionally, and even verbally abusing him for years, and he had even tried to get them to go to couples counseling before he finally cheated. So, she did feel partly to blame, that's why she stayed and gave it a second chance. Now they are doing fine!
That's funny because that's kinda the same thing he said to her when she was ignoring him for all those years..."Why don't you just divorce me if I'm not making you happy?".
I agree. It is a cowards way of ending things. But most people cheat, then communicate. Very view communicate, then cheat which is the case with this couple I know. He communicated with her his issue and problems within the marriage, but didn't want to end the marriage, was hoping she'd change etc....
Quoting RaLeighsMommy11:
Well he should of grew some balls & did it. Cheating is cowardly
Quoting LadyByrdNest:
Quoting RaLeighsMommy11:
There is no excuse for cheating. Get a dang divorce if you wanna get your needs met! She may be in the wrong for treating him that way but he should of been a man & left her
Quoting LadyByrdNest:
Quoting coupon_ash_back:exactly.
I personally think women that will stay with someone like that must not think much of themselves.
The women that I've known personally who have stayed with a man that cheated on them was because the women realized after the affair and after therapy that she was actually a big reason the husband strayed in the first place. Now, I did not say she was the cause of the husband straying, but one of my friends told me that she had been ignoring her husband sexually, and emotionally, and even verbally abusing him for years, and he had even tried to get them to go to couples counseling before he finally cheated. So, she did feel partly to blame, that's why she stayed and gave it a second chance. Now they are doing fine!
That's funny because that's kinda the same thing he said to her when she was ignoring him for all those years..."Why don't you just divorce me if I'm not making you happy?".
Dh and my argument today made me so mad, and realized he is lazy
- 2lilmamas
on Jun. 4, 2012 at 10:43 PM