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Did you go through his phone? Did you find secret profiles on other sites? How did you catch him? Also, how do you find out about secret profiles or e-mail addressses? I just see all these posts about catching your bf, SO, DF, or DH cheating, and it caused me to wonder how do you just "come across" this stuff. Did you just wake up one morning and wonder if he was cheating? What are the warning signs? I trust my DH totally for the first time in the almost 9 years that we've been married. I came from a crappy home life. My mom and dad didn't have a good relationship so I'm just not a very trusting person in relationships.
EDIT: I am so sorry to all of you that have ever been cheated on. I can't comprehend the pain that it caused. I just wanted to say that.
EDIT 2: I can't help but see a common thing in all of these posts. Facebook. Neither my husband or I have facebook accounts. We think that it makes it too easy for people to reconnect with old flames, and it's a little too open for us. Not only this, but I think that it makes it too easy to do sneaky things that you wouldn't normally do because you make yourself believe that it's okay...it's just the internet, it's not like we're doing anything REAL. Then, before you know it, you're trying to meet up with them. Things always look better in other pastures.