DH had the procedure done about 2.5 months ago. Up until the last 2 weeks his sex drive has been through the roof. Always bugging me about it. I on the other hand have had very little interest in sex since our 1st child was born in 2004. I put in the effort for him, but I could go weeks and never think twice about it. We have 4 children now and felt our family was complete, so DH decided to get snipped. I told him that he didnt need to and not to do it if he thought there was any chance at all that he would regret it.
The last 2 weeks he has slowly quit hounding me. Yes, I liked it at first, but now Im not sure what to think. He says now that he is sterile he lost all interest. =( He still finds me attractive, just isnt interested in sex anymore.
Have any of you dealt with this? What can I do to help him? I dont want him constantly nagging me all the time, but I dont want him to stop completely. There is a happy meduim right?
*** UPDATE ***
Thank you all for your replies. DH and I have had a few conversations about everything. He says it is all mental, and he is just having a really hard time with the thought of never having another baby. I am doing everything I can to support him emotionally, and things are going well so far. I make sure to go the extra mile to make sure he knows Im still attracted to him. He is starting to get that spark back. Im just praying that we can find a nice medium so that both of us are happy and satisfied.
Thanks again, ladies!