My 4 year old has been afraid of her room for months and I keep thinking it's just a phase and she'll just grow out of it. It's actually gotten worse it used to be that every morning we would wake up to het crawling in bed with us but now it's every night crying and wanting to sleep with us. It makes us feel so bad and we sometimes give in and let her, if we say no then at about 3 she comes in and I've gotten up in the morning and found her sleeping on our floor :( our sex life is disapearing right before our eyes. we try to get creative but no where is safe as soon as she notices we are gone she follows. I'm getting cranky lol I need my sexy time! We put christmas lights up in her room and she has this really cool blue light that pretty much lights up the whole room. we even put a tv in there so she can watch movies if she wants. I've run out of ideas and this mommy needs quality time with her hubby without the guilt of being a mean mommy. any ideas?