Except for AF ..I can count on one hand the number of times I've turned my husband down in the 13 years we've been married. and those times were only due to extreme illness or extreme emotional stress.. I don't believe that it is right for a spouse to turn the other down.
We have both turned it down; there are definitely times when one or the other, for one reason or the other just does not feel 'in the mood'. You don't always have to be sick to not be in the mood; sometimes you just might be too tired, something might really be weighing heaving on your mind, your body just really might not be up to it for whatever reason. Just because you aren't in the mood, doesn't mean you don't love your spouse or SO. I'm sorry needabreak8, but I honestly think both spouses have every right to say no once in awhile.
I have and so has he. There are times when we are sick or just too tired.
Connect with CafeMom:
Switch to Mobile Site
Getting Started Guide
Frequently Asked Questions
Part of the CafeMom family of sites
© 2013 CMI Marketing, Inc. All rights reserved.