Ok, so I see on here lot's of posts about husbands going to a bachelorette party and I have a question. First of all this is not about "would I let DH go"... he's an adult, regardless my feelings about it, if he wants to go he will. Here is my question... I believe Dh's frien's bachelor party is next Saturday. DH has, supposably, not been to a strip club since we've been together, and I don;t really have any reason to doubt that one. But, with this bachelor party coming up, and knowing these guys, a strip club will be involved. I am a very insecure person. Not comfortable with my body and hate the ides of him ever seeing someome else prettier or more fun or whatever. Yes, of course I know he looks at woman and has lot's of female co-workers blah blah blah... not my point. My point/question is... does anyone have any suggestions to help with this situation? Any way to help boost self-esteem or a better way to view this?? I will alos be at a bachlorette party that night for my cousin, but ours consists of dinner and drinks, nothing crazy and I don't want to the whole night be feeling helpless with a bottomless pit feeling. Please don't bash, I don't enjoy feeling this way. That's why I am asking for help on how to look at things differently and become ok within myself, even if it is just a quick fix for that one night.