I am at a loss of what to do. I've been married almost 15 years. My husband is a truck driver and is gone from any where from 2 to 6 weeks. Sometimes longer. I met this girl online we became good friends. Even driving to her state and meeting her and her husband. Somehow along the way her and my husband started talking. I got to the point I didn't like it. She's told me over and over she no longer loves her husband. And the amount of time talking to mine just plain made me feel uneasy. As far as I know they only talked and texted. But I told them both it had to stop. It wasn't right. I pitched a fit. Told my hubby if he cared about me at all and valued our Marrisge he'd stop talking to her. He said he would. That my happiness was more important and that they were just friends. I ended my friendship with her. I resently found out they never stopped and both were lying to me. The whole situation has caused me to start having panic attacks. After I thought they had stopped I told the hubby how happy I was us being free of her. Boy was I a fool. It's come to my attention that they text about 320 text a day and talk through out the day. I can't compete with that. I'm raising our 3 boys pretty much on my own and going to nursing school. I've told him to stop and he told me he can't understand why I have a problem with it. They are just friends. And tells me how much he loves me how much I mean to him. I don't believe him. I'm dead inside. I have sent her some hateful text and email and she tells me I got problems that I need help. I've been married so long. But I'm hurt and confused and scared. I have given up on life. If it weren't for my boys I'm not sure if I would be here right now. I have no one to turn to. I still love him and can't figure out what I've done to make him turn to her. I am so angry. Help please.
on Jun. 16, 2012 at 4:41 AM