My husband feels NO responsibility for using birth control! EDIT added
I am 42, we have six kids, and yet I constantly have to "make" him put on a condom. I don't take the pill because it makes me sick, he has talked about getting a vasectomy over the years but has never actually put forth any effort to make it happen, and when I talked about getting my tubes tied, he said that I shouldn't because it was major surgery.
I am so tired of being the only adult in this relationship sometimes!
EDIT: For everyone who says I should just schedule the vasectomy for him, he says that he has to be at a certain weight before he will do it, or he'll have to be put under (which he doesn't want to do).
For everyone who says that I should take care of the birth control method myself, you're missing the point...why should everything be my responsibility? I am serious when I say that I am responsible for almost everything that goes on in our house, our lives. Expecting him to take on the simple chore of using a condom is very little to ask.