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Lets compare....

Posted by on Jun. 22, 2012 at 12:23 PM
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What are the differences, good and bad, between your most previous serious ex (or whoever you still feel the most towards if you do...) and your current DH, SO, DF, ect....


WOuld you ever get back with your ex? WHy?


My DH Is very shy, antisocial, overthetop intellegent, incredibly sexy in that skater scruffy way, and he treats me like a princess. He has his issues around the house and he isnt as responsive about things as i would like him to be buttttt hes better than.....

My EX!!! My ex was very very very attractive, he was a manipulator, he tricks multiple girls into falling for him and then leaves them for other women and/or cheats. he was with me for 3 years, he always knew how to tell me what i want to hear but he was always lying, he would whistle at other girls in front of me, and in the end he slept with my BFF. I left him and hes STILL trying to crawl back to me.... lol Nice try buddy, never gonna happen.

Posted by on Jun. 22, 2012 at 12:23 PM
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bookworm14
by Mandy on Jun. 22, 2012 at 12:33 PM
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Honestly, there's a reason one is an ex and one is in my life now. No comparisons needed, I'm with my boyfriend for many reasons & I love him, flaws & all :)
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JennPearce
by Jenn! on Jun. 22, 2012 at 12:34 PM
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My dh is soooo much better than my last major relationship! I dated my ex almost 2 1/2 years. He was my hs "sweetheart", but there was nothing sweet about him. I worked & he didn't. He constantly asked me for money, he cheated on me, he was obsessed with his shitty car, & there was a lot of time I had to beg him to spend time with me.. I felt so needy & worthless, so I dumped him.

Dh is a very good guy. He has hobbies but he always puts the kids & I first. He treats me like a princess too. He enjoys spending time with us & never has had me question his faithfulness. I'm very lucky. Sometimes it takes dating a dog to realize when you have something special.
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mommyto3bees
by Silver Member on Jun. 22, 2012 at 12:46 PM
My ex was abusive in all ways,hence whys he's an ex and will always be.....my husband would never harm a woman,he loves my kids as his own, there's no comparison,my husband will always be better
2lilmamas
by 2lilmamas on Jun. 22, 2012 at 12:53 PM

 Hell to the No. My ex was to posessive. My husband now is fabolous and secure.. He treats me like a Queen.

steelcrazy
by Member on Jun. 22, 2012 at 12:54 PM
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I've been with my husband for 22 years now, so I would have one heck of a time trying to remember details about an ex.  lol

MillerBoyzMama
by on Jun. 22, 2012 at 1:06 PM

My ex and my husband are similar in some ways, very different in others.  It's hard to compare them.

CrazyLife1996
by on Jun. 23, 2012 at 8:02 AM

I can't compare I have everything I want and need with my husband.

Truequeen79
by on Jun. 23, 2012 at 9:03 AM
everything with my ex was bad and everthing with my df is great and i would never go back to my ex
Gmgej
by Michele on Jun. 23, 2012 at 9:09 AM

My husband is loving, a hard worker, fun, funny, loves his family and would do anything for us. My ex is dark brooding, a thinker, not a doer, and does only what he wants with no thought for anyone else, no I would never go back.

Kristen.Reavis
by Member on Jun. 23, 2012 at 9:51 AM
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Im sorry but dating your ex or going back to him is like buying your own clothes back from goodwill, there was a reason you removed them in the first place lol so no i would never go back to my ex he was a major cheater and abusive, my SO is still a child trapped in a mans body and he is a major mama's boy but i love him like crazy! we have our issues but we grew up together so i guess thats why we are able to shake things off and move on lol

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