and I'm the only one who thinks we need therapy. Apparently my husband and I failed to realize prior to marriage that we have varying needs of privacy. First it was his phone he didn't want me in and after a few arguments about that I let it go. Then it was his laptop, I'm over it. Now its his drawer, come on! Is he serious, he never had an issue until yesterday and still has yet to tell me why. I've been putting up his clothes in that drawer, digging things out for him, etc. But now you don't want me in there without your permission?
Honestly if this were the end of the situation I wouldn't be close to tears right now. He wants privacy with things he brings into the house, doesn't want me to ask ANYTHING about it. He doesn't want me to ask about his work schedule and won't-* just tell me unless I have a good reason like because I have to go somewhere etc. Its not ever okay for me to ask a question just because.