hello ladies. my name is Josselynn. I am 22 years old. I have an 18 month old son, Trey and a 5 month old daughter, Amelia. I have been married for alittle over 2 years now and I just don't know if the marriage is right for us. It seems like we fight every day. He is older than me by 4 years yet I find myself having to be the mature one. I was 20 when we got married and I was 2 months pregnant with my son. We got married to make people happy and I wanted the family I didn't have when I was younger. I feel like getting married young has taking toll on me mental and emotional wise. I was only in one other relationship before my husband and it was a bad one and my husband was kind of a back up plan. I feel like I missed out life. I don't regret my children but I feel I should of waited. I feel us drifting apart. We haven't been intimate for almost 4 months now. I just don't know what to do anymore. I can't afford a divorce but I believe that would best for both parties.