My oldest is 5 years old. My husband is his step dad, we live in California. His biological father is a POS and I'm a stickler on us getting a will together. If something should happen to one of us or both of us I want my kids taken care of. We have a 4 month old boy together that I know we'll both agree upon and be able to set something in place, god forbid somehting happen to us. But I am curious if something were to happen to me would my husband have any rights to my oldest ds?
I would imagine being a step father he would, plus his biological father i doubt would put up a fight. My ds's biological dad told me yesterday that "he knows Aaron(my husband) and Mikie (my oldest ds) will always have a bond that he will never have with Mikie and thats just the way it is)....he rarely takes him and if he does my son usually comes home early (which he only gets him for 2 days a week).
Before anyone tries to say why don't you go to court....I did when my son was younger and I got no where, and his child support was $88/month. Unless I can get a lawyer I'm not going to court.
So again my question is what rights to step-dads have if the mother passes away?
Sorry for the depressing subject. Just curious and wasn't sure if any of you women would know.
Thanks in advance!