But since I have no career and don't want to work until my children are in school, plus want to make sure I can give them everything they need...
But if I won the lottery or some how come into a couple mil, I'd divorce my husband. I want him in the kids life as much as he can truly be with them; but I'd try to do whatever I can to get full custody of my boys..
Anyone feel this way?
Well basically lady's its lucky you if you don know what it feels like to love someone so much, but know that it just doesn't work between you. We do not struggle financially so that I can stay home with the kids comfortably. I do not want to put my unhappiness with my dh above being able to stay home with my kids and make sure they always have what they need. I'd like to do couples therapy, he will not make time for it. He supports me financially 100%, however he doesn't do anything else. Most of his free time is sleeping or playing his drums. If he does take the kids for an hour he baby gates them in the play room and then goes to play the drums. He refuses to even have a conversation with me. He is either had a few drinks and just laughs at everythin or if he's sober he gets mad and starts yelling. He use to be the most caring and considerate person. I've known him for seven years and this past year the one that we have been married he has become a different person. So I feel like a single mom who gets financial support. So I think well maybe I'd I won the lottery I would jus leave and the only difference is I would have one less personal clean up after an no one bitchin me out. It is the worse feeling in the world to hate the one you love the most.