My husband has mental health issues and I don't know what to do... kind of long
I have been married almost 1 year. since we married, I have noticed some terrible things about him.. such as the fact that he is a pathalogical liar. About 6 months ago, I finally met his mother (she lives out of state) and a few days later we were visiting friends and I mentioned that we had dinner with her. His friend says to me " Mitchs mom died 3 years ago, so you must have met his crazy aunt" WHAT? So my hubby came outside and my step-son and I said to him" why are they saying your moms dead? I just met her? He says to me" NO THATS JUST MY CRAZY AUNT REMEBER... I TOLD YOU SHE PRETENDS TO BE MY MOM?" Mind you I met her @ his SISTERS house that is his mother not his aunt.?? I asked his sister about and she couldnt figure out why he made it up either..He just made that up to tell them one day!!! Also we used to work together and everyone @ my work thinks he is a Navy Seal! He has no military training at all! His ex-wife family and friends have all worned me about his lies and they keep getting worse! His sister tells me he's been doing this his whole life! It has gotten to the point that I don't believe a word out of his mouth because he tells me 5 different stories about the same thing. And receantly his ex called and said that their 10y/o son came home and said that Daddy told him a secret. That he used to KILL PEOPLE FOR MONEY!!! WTF??? Its not true and who the fuck says that to a child or anyone? Also I have caught him on cheating /dating websites and he swears someone hacked into his computer.... REALLY? He also admited in court to killing his ex-wifes cat with his bare hands!
Run as fast as you can. Killing a cat with his bare hands. Telling his son he kills people for money. I've heard stories like this before and the didn't end well.
Quoting CrazyLife1996:
Normally not my suggestion but in this case I will make an exception.
Run as fast as you can. Killing a cat with his bare hands. Telling his son he kills people for money. I've heard stories like this before and the didn't end well.
Yes and he just gets worse.... some days he seems normal and the next he's crazy! his own sister says she is worried about him doing something like completely snapping one day..
Please tell me why the fuck you married this man in the first place? Seriously? You married a cat murderer with an ex-wife and you didn't even meet his family before hand?
I don't see a happy ending to this at all.
Quoting jeriballinger:
Quoting CrazyLife1996:
Normally not my suggestion but in this case I will make an exception.
Run as fast as you can. Killing a cat with his bare hands. Telling his son he kills people for money. I've heard stories like this before and the didn't end well.
Yes and he just gets worse.... some days he seems normal and the next he's crazy! his own sister says she is worried about him doing something like completely snapping one day..
I married him before I knew all of this stuff obviosly! The only members of his family that I met before the wedding was 1 of his sisters and her husband and son. The rest of his family live in Tennesse. And I also had NO IDEA about the animal abuse until I came across his divorce/custody papers from his divorce from his first wife! After we were married and the only reason I saw the papers is there was a flood in our old house and I grabbed a bunch of boxes from the closit and brought them to my work.
Quoting CrazyLife1996:
Most of us have that little voice telling us what to do and you really need to listen to it.
I don't see a happy ending to this at all.
Quoting jeriballinger:
Quoting CrazyLife1996:
Normally not my suggestion but in this case I will make an exception.
Run as fast as you can. Killing a cat with his bare hands. Telling his son he kills people for money. I've heard stories like this before and the didn't end well.
Yes and he just gets worse.... some days he seems normal and the next he's crazy! his own sister says she is worried about him doing something like completely snapping one day..
Yep! I guess i just needed to hear it from somewhere else.. the only people who know any of this are his family... No one in mine has any clue what kind of person he is. He is very convincing
Quoting jeriballinger:
Quoting CrazyLife1996:
Most of us have that little voice telling us what to do and you really need to listen to it.
I don't see a happy ending to this at all.
Quoting jeriballinger:
Quoting CrazyLife1996:
Normally not my suggestion but in this case I will make an exception.
Run as fast as you can. Killing a cat with his bare hands. Telling his son he kills people for money. I've heard stories like this before and the didn't end well.
Yes and he just gets worse.... some days he seems normal and the next he's crazy! his own sister says she is worried about him doing something like completely snapping one day..
Yep! I guess i just needed to hear it from somewhere else.. the only people who know any of this are his family... No one in mine has any clue what kind of person he is. He is very convincing
Quoting thecoffeefairy:
Leave now. Don't look back. Don't listen to his pleas, don't second guess your decision. Just leave, divorce him and never look back. That behavior just gets worse.
The only real issue that I have is that his son will be with him ... We have 50/50 with his ex.. but if I left than I would hope she'd take her son. I'm not worried about money or anything I make the most.
You know , but does your partner?
- jeriballinger
on Jun. 26, 2012 at 12:55 PM