Hello... this is my first post, heard about this from a friend an thought i would give it a try. I am in Some serious need of advice. Its a long crazy story so i will make it as simple an clear as possible. I had my first son when i was 18, with my high school sweetheart. We had literally known each other our entire lives... we were both young and our relationship of course did not last. We remained friends for the most part, had some very tuff times but to this day are good friends. We have both married an had other children. My huge dilemma is we are both still very much in love with each other. Both of our marriages are extremely rocky an nearing a end. The other day we had a nice conversation an he told me how much in love he is with me still to this day, an that our relationship is the happiest he has ever been with anyone. He has always told me that in the future he sees us growing old together an spending the rest of our lives together. I really want to believe him. Its been 10+ years since we have been together. I know that he holds my heart in his hands his smile makes me smile hes everything i have always pictured myslef with. I know that we both need to focus on the relationships that we are in now but should i really trust what he is telling me? One minute he is the amazing sweet man i know then minutes later, when his wife is around he is the biggest jerk. What do i do??
on Jun. 29, 2012 at 4:20 AM