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he told me...TAKE A PICK! ...after I did, he hitted me!

Posted by on Jun. 29, 2012 at 6:56 AM
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After, no calling, no texting for 14 working hours...I got worried so I called him.

He told me he had a bad day...and to put his dinner in the refri because after work, he was going to stop by the bar to get himself a drink to relax...

"After that, I will come home and made love to you AS LONG AS YOU DO NOT GIVE ME A HARD TIME OVER ME NOT CALLING...or NOT RUSHING HOME...because I AM STOPPING FOR A DRINK"

"BUT, if you are not feeling like getting over this small stuff...I AM STAYING AWAY...AND I WILL SLEEP AT ANY OF OUR FRIENDS HOUSE...even at work if needed....take a pick!"  he told me!

I told him '"You have no right to treat me like this...Please, stay where-ever you are as long as you need to....but you are not going to tell me when and how to react...and most of all YOU ARE NOT GOING TO TELL ME if you get in my nerves, I am not coming home..."

After sleeping some where's else he went to work, after work he come back home....he did not want to talk about it, he was acting as if nothing have had happened...HE LOST CONTROL OF HIS ANGER AND HE HITTED ME RIGHT ON THE FACE according to him WITH AN OPEN HAND so, it should not have hurt me much, HOWEVER, HE BROKE MY TOP LIB AND THERE WAS LOTS OF BLOOD...I wanted to call the cops he took my phone away from me....my neighbor calmed him down forcing him to be gone...

NEXT DAY HE WAS BACK ASKING FOR FORGINESS..THIS IS HIS WAY OF SAYING HOW SORRY HE IS "I AM SORRY I ALMOST KILLED YOU, BUT YOU DROVE ME TO IT"  "You by being mad I did not come home, and by questioning me too much."

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aimesnyc
by Amy on Jun. 29, 2012 at 11:48 AM

BUMP!

JenJen285
by on Jun. 29, 2012 at 11:49 AM
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To be honest my first reaction to this is, something's not right. It sounds fishy to me.
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armywife0424
by Member on Jun. 29, 2012 at 11:50 AM
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He sounds like a dick. I'd leave his dinner in the trash and my legs would be sealed shut.
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nebcutie
by Member on Jun. 29, 2012 at 11:51 AM
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Pretty sure mines suitcase would be on the porch with a note that says when you get that stick out of your ass and start kiss mine for that attitude tgen you can come home.
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yourpassion
by Kristen on Jun. 29, 2012 at 11:55 AM
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Wow! Definatly something going on, stress, cheating, mid life crisis??? That wouldn't fly with me. Dh would be sleeping elsewhere for a good long while. What an idiot!
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JennPearce
by Jenn! on Jun. 29, 2012 at 12:01 PM
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Dh wouldn't be allowed to come back until that bizarre behavior was resolved. Sounds weird to me :/
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Monsita
by Bronze Member on Jun. 29, 2012 at 12:28 PM


Quoting JenJen285:

To be honest my first reaction to this is, something's not right. It sounds fishy to me.


Thank you for your thought!

Just how fishy are we talking here?!

He has never done anything like this....

Monsita
by Bronze Member on Jun. 29, 2012 at 12:31 PM


Quoting armywife0424:

He sounds like a dick. I'd leave his dinner in the trash and my legs would be sealed shut.


Thanks for giving me your opinion!

I am saving his dinner....IT WILL BE WHAT HE WILL BE EATING IF HE EVER COME BACK HOME....as for my legs....I TOTALLY AGRRED WITH YOU!

 

MissElissa21
by Bronze Member on Jun. 29, 2012 at 12:31 PM
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Wow! Mine wouldnt be getting any lovin when he came home and as soon as he walked in the door, id leave and go to the bar for a drink or 4 to relax. What a jerk move!
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MrsImperfect
by Bronze Member on Jun. 29, 2012 at 12:31 PM
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I would assume another woman if my hubby acted like that. F that
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