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bumpy road

Posted by on Jun. 30, 2012 at 2:04 PM
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So i feel we've hit a bump in the rd in our marriage I even sometimes feel he maybe cheating not in real life but on the internet. My dh works all the time 6pm-530am n its a HR drive up n HR drive bk n then he sleeps till maybe a HR or two b4 he leaves. Our sex life is hardly there anymore. I don't know y I feel he'd b cheating on the internet but I just can't shake the feeling that maybe I'm not good enough anymore. Any of u ladies been there?
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shadow_lark
by Silver Member on Jun. 30, 2012 at 2:12 PM
No, i havent. have you tried asking him about it?
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CrazyLife1996
by on Jun. 30, 2012 at 2:14 PM
You need to talk to him. Even write him a letter telling him how you feel. Tell him what you miss about your relationship.

It seems more like you are just disconnected from each other. I think you just need to reconnect and things will be fine.

We all fall into a daily routine and forget the most important person in our life our spouse. Communication is what keeps that spark burning brightly.

I wouldn't say anything about the thought of cheating at this point. Try just talking he probably doesn't even realize how you are feeling.
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blackoceanveiw
by on Jun. 30, 2012 at 3:00 PM
No I haven't.

Quoting shadow_lark:

No, i havent. have you tried asking him about it?
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blackoceanveiw
by on Jun. 30, 2012 at 3:01 PM
OK thanks

Quoting CrazyLife1996:

You need to talk to him. Even write him a letter telling him how you feel. Tell him what you miss about your relationship.



It seems more like you are just disconnected from each other. I think you just need to reconnect and things will be fine.



We all fall into a daily routine and forget the most important person in our life our spouse. Communication is what keeps that spark burning brightly.



I wouldn't say anything about the thought of cheating at this point. Try just talking he probably doesn't even realize how you are feeling.
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CameronsMommy23
by on Jun. 30, 2012 at 3:25 PM
I'd definitely have a talk with him asap. Tell him your concerns and see what he says.
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blackoceanveiw
by on Jun. 30, 2012 at 3:44 PM
OK thanks

Quoting CameronsMommy23:

I'd definitely have a talk with him asap. Tell him your concerns and see what he says.
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shadow_lark
by Silver Member on Jun. 30, 2012 at 3:53 PM
Then do so :). Men arent mind readers nd unless you speak up and tell him he wont know that you have a problem with what he is doing.

Quoting blackoceanveiw:

No I haven't.



Quoting shadow_lark:

No, i havent. have you tried asking him about it?
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blackoceanveiw
by on Jun. 30, 2012 at 4:51 PM
I talked to him

Quoting shadow_lark:

Then do so :). Men arent mind readers nd unless you speak up and tell him he wont know that you have a problem with what he is doing.



Quoting blackoceanveiw:

No I haven't.





Quoting shadow_lark:

No, i havent. have you tried asking him about it?
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shadow_lark
by Silver Member on Jun. 30, 2012 at 4:52 PM
How'd that go?

Quoting blackoceanveiw:

I talked to him



Quoting shadow_lark:

Then do so :). Men arent mind readers nd unless you speak up and tell him he wont know that you have a problem with what he is doing.





Quoting blackoceanveiw:

No I haven't.







Quoting shadow_lark:

No, i havent. have you tried asking him about it?
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Flaca43
by Member on Jun. 30, 2012 at 5:10 PM
I'm sorry. I think you should try talking to him.
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