I am curious to know if anyone who has gone to counseling believes it helped you. My DH says anybody over a certain age knows that it is bs. I told him I want to go to better myself and in turn help us since things are bad. He says it saddens him because every time I go I am putting off taking personal responsibility and just doing what needs to be done. Also that I am just helping some a hole pay his mortgage and drive around a mercedes while he laughs about the nuts he listens to while paying for drinks at the bar. He says those people don't care, they are just there to make money and it is all based on Frued who was a coke head and had a thing for his mom. I am gullable enough and am wondering if I am not getting it like the rest of the adults??