so i left my almost 15yr old son home alone so i could come into work for an hour...and my husband is pissed. he was fine in his room playing video games....the point to this is i am expected to always follow the rules my husband sets for me and the kids.....i just told him he cant always have it his way, and he said it will as long as im with him...and if i dont like it leave.....jerk!! now he just sent me a text and i quote " why dont you leave and do us all a favor, i dont need your shit, im sure you can find someone to live off of until they get sick of you".....nice huh??? all because i told him i can make my own decisions
Quoting CameronsMommy23:
The legal age to be home alone is usually 13!! So tell him to calm down. You two need to discuss it and make a decision on him being left alone in the future.
the problem is, he is the only one that ever has a say in anything...he thinks because he says it then thats the way it is.....i dont ever have a say, and when i do open my mouth to say anything, he says hes not looking for my opinion.....
Honey... you need to leave. That's some control issues, and you shouldn't have to live like that.
I would start making a whole bunch of decisions that didn't involve his input. If he doesn't want to be married to you, HE needs to leave!
That to me, is NOT a real marriage!!! In a real marriage, neither one of you tries to 'control' the other person. If my DH got mad at me for leaving one of our older kids home alone--I would laugh at him!! Granted--they are 18, 17, and 15!!! THANKFULLY, my DH treats me as an equal and also with respect. Your husband needs to either grow the hell up, or you need to leave him!! He will not change his ways unless he "WANTS" to change his ways!!! GOOD LUCK!!
Its always gotta be about him. kinda long
- tbhmommy
on Jul. 2, 2012 at 2:34 PM