My husband and i moved in with my inlaws to help save money and get ahead. but the problem is my mother in law thinks because i am at home with the children that im ment to be the house slave and her husband thinks he can just talk to me any kind of way and get away with it. When i talk to my husband about it he is on my side until hes supposed to come to my defence hes MIA. they also dont pitch in on the groceries which has gone up by two hundred dollars since we moved in because they eat whenever i cook. but when there isnt any groceries left they go out to eat and leave us to fend for ourselves. since im a stay at home mom i dont know what to do because im not bringing in any money i feel like i am not getting any respect.