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Posted by on Jul. 4, 2012 at 6:23 PM
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 To buy for. My Fiance's birthday will be coming up at the end of Aug. You may think "you still have enough time" but the answer to that is no I dont. He is such a picky person to shop for and I HATE it. I love to get him things but I just never know what to get him. So here is where I need your ladies help. I am going to describe him a little and if you guys could throw some ideas out there that would be GREAT!!!

He is such a caveman. Testosterone out the ass.He doesnt do preppy, or anything like that. He is into sports (however that all I ever hget him). He dont wear jewlery, Loves music, he is a lead singer in a band, fav color is blue, doesnt play sports, he is a pipe fitter, plays the drums, loves to eat, and of course loves to have sex.

any suggestions are welcome!

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phrenicfire89
by on Jul. 4, 2012 at 6:27 PM
Music gift card, cds of bands he likes, concert tickets, his gave homemade meal and dessert. A movie (buy him some new dvds) make a snack bar. Buy new lingerie an tell him happy birthday.
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Brandiec214
by Member on Jul. 4, 2012 at 6:30 PM

 all that is good ideas but I feel like im being cheesy or something if I give him gift cards. However Lingerie isnt such a bad idea but is that more for me or him?

Quoting phrenicfire89:

Music gift card, cds of bands he likes, concert tickets, his gave homemade meal and dessert. A movie (buy him some new dvds) make a snack bar. Buy new lingerie an tell him happy birthday.

 

lillybug222
by Silver Member on Jul. 4, 2012 at 6:33 PM
Concert tics!
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phrenicfire89
by on Jul. 4, 2012 at 11:01 PM
You make it for him ;) buy something he would like to see you in, tease him, let him take it off you, etc. Gift cards allow him to have alone time, money and gets to pick something he might feel talk wouldn't regularly have money for. I get my DH a gift card to Barnes and noble every bday and Christmas so he can go by himself and pick a book he's had his eye on.

Quoting Brandiec214:

 all that is good ideas but I feel like im being cheesy or something if I give him gift cards. However Lingerie isnt such a bad idea but is that more for me or him?


Quoting phrenicfire89:

Music gift card, cds of bands he likes, concert tickets, his gave homemade meal and dessert. A movie (buy him some new dvds) make a snack bar. Buy new lingerie an tell him happy birthday.

 

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DarlaHood
by Member on Jul. 4, 2012 at 11:21 PM

A pipe fitter always needs a good massage.  And I took my manly dh to the salon to get a full service mani/pedi.  At first he was skeptical, but he went reluctantly.  Once he had two ladies massaging, hot wax, lotion, and exfoliating he changed his mind!  He loved it!  I picked a nice salon where we could kind of sit together and it was airy so it didn't suffocate him.  He wants to go back!

Brandiec214
by Member on Jul. 5, 2012 at 12:18 PM
Really???? I wonder if I can get mine to do that!

Quoting DarlaHood:

A pipe fitter always needs a good massage.  And I took my manly dh to the salon to get a full service mani/pedi.  At first he was skeptical, but he went reluctantly.  Once he had two ladies massaging, hot wax, lotion, and exfoliating he changed his mind!  He loved it!  I picked a nice salon where we could kind of sit together and it was airy so it didn't suffocate him.  He wants to go back!

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Brandiec214
by Member on Jul. 5, 2012 at 12:21 PM
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Yes I could do that! And I didn't think about giving him the alone time although he always gets alone time with the guys in always home. I was thinking a hotel in our city and night out. Maybe invite friends to meet us at a bar or something.

Quoting phrenicfire89:

You make it for him ;) buy something he would like to see you in, tease him, let him take it off you, etc. Gift cards allow him to have alone time, money and gets to pick something he might feel talk wouldn't regularly have money for. I get my DH a gift card to Barnes and noble every bday and Christmas so he can go by himself and pick a book he's had his eye on.



Quoting Brandiec214:

 all that is good ideas but I feel like im being cheesy or something if I give him gift cards. However Lingerie isnt such a bad idea but is that more for me or him?



Quoting phrenicfire89:

Music gift card, cds of bands he likes, concert tickets, his gave homemade meal and dessert. A movie (buy him some new dvds) make a snack bar. Buy new lingerie an tell him happy birthday.


 

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DarlaHood
by Member on Jul. 6, 2012 at 12:42 AM

Don't know..... but you could always blind fold him!  LOL  Imagine his surprise when he finds out he's in a nail salon!!!  ahahahahaha

Quoting Brandiec214:

Really???? I wonder if I can get mine to do that!

Quoting DarlaHood:

A pipe fitter always needs a good massage.  And I took my manly dh to the salon to get a full service mani/pedi.  At first he was skeptical, but he went reluctantly.  Once he had two ladies massaging, hot wax, lotion, and exfoliating he changed his mind!  He loved it!  I picked a nice salon where we could kind of sit together and it was airy so it didn't suffocate him.  He wants to go back!


Brandiec214
by Member on Jul. 6, 2012 at 6:31 AM
Lmao haha true!!!

Quoting DarlaHood:

Don't know..... but you could always blind fold him!  LOL  Imagine his surprise when he finds out he's in a nail salon!!!  ahahahahaha


Quoting Brandiec214:

Really???? I wonder if I can get mine to do that!



Quoting DarlaHood:

A pipe fitter always needs a good massage.  And I took my manly dh to the salon to get a full service mani/pedi.  At first he was skeptical, but he went reluctantly.  Once he had two ladies massaging, hot wax, lotion, and exfoliating he changed his mind!  He loved it!  I picked a nice salon where we could kind of sit together and it was airy so it didn't suffocate him.  He wants to go back!


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lilmarine111
by on Jul. 6, 2012 at 7:00 AM
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i think tickets to a nice band or concert would be great!

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