Here's my delima.
My husband works full time and goes to school nights. I understand that time with him is going to be very limited, as I'm used to that because he was in the army, the problem with very limited together time, I feel DH spends more time with his friend/Co worker/classmate than he does his family. Example I was going to pick him up from break and go get ice cream with our kids. He agreed before he left home telling me a time to be there. I got there and he decided to eat lunch with his buddy instead of going with his family. Mind you he works with the guy 5 days a week and has all his classes with him 3 nights a week and also takes the Guy home after work and after
school. I've tried telling him how it made me feel, he seemed to 'understand' until the other night when he came home after work and school at 10:20 and I just asked casually what time he was let out he said 9:40, and there's a 30 minute gap when his work and school are a 5 minute drive from home. Come to find out he was hanging out with that Guy again for a little while. I don't mind him having friends but its like he's chosen his friend over his family! All he does after when he's home is shower and go to sleep. Idk what to do! Any advice?